Rape and sexual assault are big problems that are often not discussed. April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, a time to talk about these issues and to educate yourself about the extent of sexual abuse and to learn how you can help.
Dubois County Sheriff Tom Kleinhelter and Prosecutor Anthony D. Quinn want the public to know they take every allegation of sexual assault seriously and are committed to advocating for victims.
Sheriff Kleinhelter said the problem is more prevalent than many people realize.
Every 68 seconds, an American is sexually assaulted. And every 9 minutes, the victim is a child. RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network) reports that an average of 433,600 Americans age 12 and older are sexually assaulted or raped each year and 60,000 children are victims of substantiated or indicated sexual abuse.
Prosecutor Anthony D. Quinn said the effects of sexual assault on victims is far reaching and long lasting.
The vast majority of sexual assault victims – 90% – are women. The majority of sexual assaults take place at or near the victim’s home and eight out of 10 victims know their attacker.
“These cases are made even more difficult for the victims, who in most cases, have a relationship with their attacker,” said Prosecutor Quinn. “That poses a barrier for many women to come forward, but it’s extremely important that they do so.”
Sexual assault and harassment can happen anywhere, including in online formats. It’s very important to talk to any young people in your life about sexual assault, inappropriate communication and touch, and what to do if they see or experience something they feel is wrong.
“I urge all parents to have ongoing conversations within their families, especially given the role technology plays in our lives,” said Sheriff Kleinhelter. “There are unfortunately many predators who work every day to target children with the intent of sexually abusing them.
Given the large number of sexual assault victims in the U.S. each year, it is highly likely you will encounter someone who has been sexually assaulted at some point. Knowing how to respond when a friend or relative discloses abuse is crucial.
Here are some phrases RAINN recommends to support a survivor through their recovery process:
• “I believe you. / It took a lot of courage to tell me about this.”
• “It’s not your fault. / You didn’t do anything to deserve this.”
• “You are not alone. / I care about you and am here to listen or help in any way I can.”
• “I’m sorry this happened. / This shouldn’t have happened to you.”
It’s also key to remember that recovery from sexual violence is different for every person. There is no timetable or “right” way to deal with the effects of sexual abuse.
Remember to avoid judgment and utilize patience as a survivor struggles with the long-term effects of their abuse.
Check in periodically with the survivor. Even if the assault occurred a long time ago, the pain never completely disappears.
Recommend resources to help the assault victim. The National Sexual Assault Hotline is 1-800-656-4673. It is available 24 hours a day. You may also visit rain.org for more information.
“The blame for sexual assault is 100% on the abuser,” said Sheriff Kleinhelter. “It’s essential that responsibility never be placed on the victim in any way.”
Prosecutor Quinn said Dubois County law enforcement remains committed to providing justice for victims and consequences for offenders. “We will do everything we can to ensure offenders are held accountable and that victims receive support and assistance to cope with the effects of their assault.”
